A Message of Peace

     I was trying to come up with something that would make myself and others feel good this Christmas.  I thought of songs, hymns, readings, and quotations.  In the end, a clip from A Charlie Brown Christmas, seems to sum up the true meaning of what we all should be feeling on this holiday.  The voice of an innocent child in the character of Linus adds depth to the message this year.

     For those who do not celebrate the holiday of Christmas, I offer the same of message of “Peace on Earth“.   May everyone go forward with care, love, and the hope of better days to come.   Angela

Is Thanksgiving Becoming Thanksgetting?

                                                                                                                                                                           

      The Friday after Thanksgiving has been deemed the start of the holiday shopping season.  At one time it was a low-key day people spent walking around shops enjoying the long weekend.  In recent years, it has become a maniacal race for bargains.  The opening time of the stores offering sales has crept up by a few hours every year with the inevitable now happening.  Retailers are opening their doors on Thanksgiving day.

      Thanksgiving was created as a day of reflection.  People gathered around for a meal with family, friends, and neighbors in appreciation for all that we have, and for all that we can offer.   The day is being reduced from what we have, to what we can get.  There are lines forming outside of big box stores with people trying to get those 5 big screen televisions that will be offered cheap.  Some are waiting for the latest electronic gizmo that in 6 months will be replaced.  Others want the feeling they are getting something for their money, so they too wait in line.  There are people who believe those few days of shopping will provide the biggest bargains of the season.  Never mind they have weeks to go, this is the day to score big.

     It is a difficult time.  The economy has taken its toll on many.  People have the right to seek out items at low cost if they choose.  What I don’t like is the timing of the deals.  Why should the employees, who don’t make a great deal of money, be the ones who have to report to work?   The executives who make the decision to open are not working that day.  Would it really hurt to wait until Friday?  Can’t we as a nation have one day off that most of us will celebrate?   Aren’t we supposed to give thanks and not think about what we can get?

     My family drives about an hour to celebrate the day with relatives.  It is the most pleasant ride of the year as most of the businesses are closed.  The roads are peaceful and quiet.  On the way back, you can see people in their homes enjoying the day with loved ones.  A day of giving thanks for family, friends, good health, food, and shelter.  The one day of the year when we pause to remember all that we value as it is shared over a simple meal.  These are things that money can’t buy and aren’t for sale.  A day called Thanks”giving”.

Thanks´giv`ing

n. 1. The act of rending thanks, or expressing gratitude for favors or mercies.

Webster’s Dictionary

Shopping During the Holiday Season

Article first published as Shopping During the Holiday Season on Technorati.

This is the time of year when people flocked to retail stores in search of presents for family, friends, and co-workers.   Tokens of appreciation are bought for individuals who have aided or provided us with service.   Malls and major retailers attract the largest number of shoppers.  This causes the workers in these stores to move at a never ending pace.  What is surprising is how exasperated customers become when they aren’t instantly waited on or checked out. Waiting 5 to 10 minutes suddenly becomes an eternity.   In a world of instant gratification,the retail worker cannot keep up.

I decided to do some shopping on Monday.   I thought this would be better than shopping on the weekend.   Even though it was early,the stores where already crowded.   My first stop was ToysRus.  Luckily I didn’t have to purchase any electronics because this area was bombarded.   They had 4 staff members working exclusively in this section.   Adults were shouting out what video games they needed behind the locked displays.   Who was first and who had been waiting the longest was constantly stated. Of course these people didn’t know if certain games worked on certain systems.   I have to credit the staff with being patient and knowledgeable.

When I got to the checkout, one line was open.   The young woman ringing people up was moving as fast as she could. Questions about price and what the circular promised kept coming up.   When it was my turn I could see that the cashier was already harried and sweating.   It was only 9:45 AM. I told her to slow down.   That she wasn’t going to make it through the day.   She smiled and gave a little laugh.   The register next to her finally opened providing some much needed help.

In the mall, the situation repeatedly played itself out.   The smaller stores weren’t overwhelmed, but Sears, Macy’s, etc. had larger crowds and longer lines.   People were talking out loud on how ridiculous it was that the line was going so slow.   There was little regard for the person who was doing the best they could.   On top of sales, they dealt with returns and questions about stock.   They also have to give the obligatory plea to open an account today and save 20%.

My guess is that these retailers probably staff the stores heavily on the weekend when shoppers are out in force, and then cut back early in the week.   What we have to remember is that many of these workers and enduring long hours for minimal pay.   They are doing their best they under the circumstance and are trying to earn a paycheck.   Once in a blue moon you may encounter someone who is discourteous, but for the most part they are polite and helpful.  Smile when you get to the checkout.   Say something nice and you may get better service.    A thank you and wishing them Happy Holidays might bring a moment of relief.

The Hype of Black Friday

Let me see if I can understand the thrill of shopping on Black Friday.  I can stay up and go shopping for bargains at midnight, or I can get a few hours of sleep, and shop at stores that open anytime between 4:00 A.M. and 6:00 A.M.   I will have to stand in line for hours in the dark and cold with a few hundred other people waiting for the doors to open.  Once they do, a mad rush will begin for the 3 televisions or computers that are incredibly discounted.  Of course I won’t get one of those deals, but now that I am in the store, let’s see what else I can find.  This is the hype of Black Friday.  It is a day I don’t shop.

I appreciate a bargain as much as anyone.  I like deals and coupons.  I rarely pay full price for anything, and usually wait for sales.  Sales are going to offered from now until the holidays.  They will continue after the holidays as well.  Why people are willing to camp out days ahead of time is baffling.  To wade among crowds on what should be a restful weekend is surprising.   To force people to work on what once was a day that stores were closed is unfair.  The retailers claim that it is the public that want these hours, but if they weren’t offered, they wouldn’t be outside waiting in those lines.

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday.  It is a day that family and friends gather and share a nice meal.  It is a time to reflect on our blessings.  This has been a hard year for many American families.   For every advertisement for a store sale, there is a story about food pantries that are trying to meet the demand of a Thanksgiving dinner.  The focus of the day should be on what we have, not what we can get.   Health, family, food, a job, and happiness, cannot be taken over by thoughts of materialism.  Let us remember the meaning of the day as it was meant to be.  Gather with group of people, maybe watch the  parade, and have a nice meal together.  Enjoy what money can’t buy and have a Happy Thanksgiving.